I just dont see why everyone runs to the church expecting to find a church man, and its so many in the church thats players and playettes, because they have done so much that they have to be in the church in order to stay alive and to keep up with the fakeness, that they keep worshipping while having fellowship.  A lot of people use the church as a front.  They know it is a bunch of church women that have been out at the club, shaking all that ass, sucking more dick than a hooker in new york after midnight, and still waking up sunday morning, dressed up in white.  Group, tell me, isn't their something wrong with that.  Now I'm not criticizing, but women got some shit that they have to deal with as well.  See, it is all this misbelief because, us being humans, tend to blame others, for our own shortcomings.  Some people are coming up short in the pockets, in the bedroom, and in representation.  It is a lot of people breaching the contracts, all of the time, and wondering why people are so fast to return to everything, that they had, before the breach of the contract.  Sometimes and I hope it is more, so that it happens with two people that should have never created the contract of a relationship, in the first place.  Both sides full of lies, deception, and fraud.  This is the problem in general.  We can ask all the questions that we want in order to hope, that we will get closer to finding out what we want.  But your answers to questions aint shit, unless your actions fit.  You know what, people really need to say, if the sex becomes boring, tiring, or too much of a burden on you, than what you won't do another will, whether you like it or not, a "other" has been more than willing to do, what you refuse to do .  It seems like the only informal binding agreement that is left to this day. 

    It is just so many people pointing the finger, like I said, and need to be point the finger at themselves.  It isnt the man or woman married with the kids now Maybe, its the man/woman not taking care of the kids, and each other needs and that why he needs extra, because he is in a situation of getting less.  No one wants to get in a relationship of less of what they need, because we all get in a relationship thinking we will get more, and more is more permanent and steady with this person.  The problem is too much complacent relationships, and not enough people realizing all the effort it took to get a number and some sex for the first time, than this effort needs to be continuous on both sides.  If not, than remember what you was like before you had sex or gave out your number to your current significant other.  You was just a shell waiting to be cracked open.  You have that, so what is your excuse now.  People want a full time job in a relationship, but spend more time taking days off, vacations, and extra breaks, but you wondering why you got fired!

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Merle T. Rutledge Jr